Guys should never tell “I LOVE YOU” or even “I LIKE YOU” to a girl when they can’t really prove it through actions. Sometimes, they just say it because according to them “that was what they really feel DURING THAT TIME”. So what was it after?
When you don’t mean the words you say, or when you are still unsure of what you feel, never say anything. Never confess something to a very complicated girl because I am telling you, it will make her complicated life more complicated.Don’t make her hope for the things you know you are not willing to do or give. Do not make her feel she’s important to you by treating her extra special, when aside from her, you do it to all other girls as well. Do not even attempt to ask her how she feels for you especially if you feel she has feelings already, because you will only just have the chance to take it for granted…
This might include a lot of DON’Ts. Why? Because most of men DO these things, and in the end they could not stand to what they say and do little, leaving the girls all waiting for something guys know will never come. When you are still not sure of what you feel, do not confess.
Even if they act like they don’t care, deep inside they are already moved. That’s one thing about women: they can pretend on what they feel. But when they get really serious and they can no longer hold it, they will just burst out and will hold no control of themselves.
Guys, you should always be careful of what you will say to girls. You should be extra careful if it involves emotions. You don’t know their pasts, their wrecked life full of former disappointments and shattered hopes. Then there you will come, pretending to be someone who is ready to protect her at any cost… but will just leave her if you realized what you really like. You said nothing after. You made her fall and left her even before she can tell it to you. You left her CLUELESS, asking whys. Sometimes you will come back, will make excuses and make her feel special again… but you are still uncertain, so in the end you will leave her again, leaving her hopeful while clinging to the former words you said that you “like” or “love” her.
If you can’t still stand the words you say, don’t say it yet. Say it when you are ready to prove it. Say it when you are sure of it. Say it not because you are bored and needy of affection. Girls’ brain cells are as complicated as their hearts. So never play with their emotions. Because you don’t know how much impact it will leave on their whole life.
Be responsible of your words. Never give them the whole crappy things such as false hopes.